The Importance of Nurturing Boys for a Better Future
By addressing the issues boys face today, we lay the foundation for a healthier and more harmonious world tomorrow.
My job allows me to interact with a diverse range of people, and there is something uniquely significant about working with boys. While I enjoy working with girls and value the mature wisdom shared by our seniors, discussing the complexities of business with entrepreneurs, and collaborating with exceptional individuals in fields ranging from education to social development to spiritual leadership are all rewarding, the boys hold a special place in my heart. Perhaps it is for selfish reasons that I focus on developing boys—being a father of two girls, I want them to find men of integrity to marry someday.
Why Boys Matter
I believe that raising boys who are physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually healthy is crucial for the future of our families, communities, cities, nations, and ultimately the world. Healthy boys grow into healthy men who contribute positively to society. By addressing the issues boys face today, we lay the foundation for a healthier and more harmonious world tomorrow. Research shows that early experiences and environments significantly shape brain development and future behaviour. Positive reinforcement and nurturing environments can lead to the development of healthier neural pathways, promoting resilience and emotional regulation.
Addressing the Root Causes
This perspective does not diminish the severity of gender-based violence. Instead, it serves as a motivation to tackle the root causes of these problems. Repairing society starts with repairing boys. Unresolved childhood trauma in boys can lead to a range of detrimental behaviours in adulthood, including violence and criminal activities. Neuroscientific studies have shown that trauma can alter brain structures such as the amygdala, hippocampus, and prefrontal cortex, affecting emotional regulation, memory, and decision-making. By addressing these issues early on, we can prevent future harm and promote a more peaceful society.
The Importance of Accountability
It's unfair to neglect boys' issues only to condemn their actions as adults. As a father of two daughters, I recognize the importance of raising boys to be disciplined and honorable. My hope is that my daughters' future husbands will be young men of integrity, valor, and respect. While prayer is essential, action is equally important. We must work together to support and nurture boys, guiding them to become the men we want in our society. Neuroscience highlights the importance of accountability in developing the prefrontal cortex, the brain area responsible for executive functions such as planning, decision-making, and impulse control.
Redefining Fatherhood
To raise a generation of young men capable of changing the world for the better, we must reassess the role of fathers. Traditionally, a father's primary role has been seen as the provider. However, in pursuing financial goals, many fathers have overlooked the true value of fatherhood. Accountability and affiliation should be at the forefront of a father's responsibilities. Providing material wealth is not enough; fathers must also offer affirmation and hold their children accountable for their actions. Research in neuroscience indicates that paternal involvement positively influences cognitive and social development, leading to better emotional and psychological outcomes for children.
A Call to Action
Leaders are influential people. Let us join forces to hold boys accountable for their actions and provide them with the much-needed affirmation they crave. Echoing the words of our Heavenly Father, "This is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased," we can instil a sense of worth and purpose in the young men of our society. Neuroscience shows that positive affirmations and support can enhance neuroplasticity, the brain's ability to reorganize itself by forming new neural connections, thus fostering growth and development.
By nurturing boys today, we build a better future for all. Let's commit to this important work and create a world where every child can thrive.
Shalom!
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